My Perfect Guys - Male Model Christian Bok

Hot is hot. Of course, it still remains in the eye of the beholder...

My type doesn't usually gravitate around beautiful faces. Nor does it simply gravitate on a great physique. Both qualities however, contribute to the wholesomeness and being of a person. I enjoy a beautiful face and I think it's hot to have a great body but nothing stimulates me more than the brain and the heart of a person. I know, I know. You may be thinking... "Are you effin kidding me?!" But I'm serious as a heart attack! ;) (Sheesh - that is so 80s).

When you meet someone, you generally get attracted by the looks and the body. Attraction at that level is very premature. It grows and it develops. You ever wonder why we see gorgeous guys with girls not worthy of a second look and vice versa? That is because they found something in that person that kept the attraction going. You can challenge this. Take a look around you and tell me if I'm not correct. True Male Beauty - - still remains in the eye of the beholder.

My Perfect Guys

Let's be honest. We have a certain type. You look at a guy and you know exactly if he's hot or not. The difference is, you can simply look at a guy's appearance and think he's hot - but it could easily go down a notch if other factors seem out of whack (a brain is one thing that I require).

I would say that the pictures I am posting here today are from my collection and tells you what I consider HOT on the physical level kind of way. This doesn't mean that the guys featured are
brainless. I have met very hot guys who are super smart as well. I just want to let you know that My Perfect Guys doesn't rely solely on looks. Just trying to be clear.. ;)

We welcome change...

Sorry for the delay in posting people! I have been in bed sick with the flu for the past three days. I couldn't even get out of bed, let alone think and blog about something that is substantial. I am feeling a bit rested today and decided to update you guys on what's going on with my life.. (how boring!)

Do you remember when I wrote about a person I met through my blog? We hit it off right away and soon became "virtual lovers". We would speak to each other daily, and we would YM and SKYPE each other every night. We loved talking to each other and we talk about everything. We fight, we laugh - all those normal things that one would expect in a growing relationship. It is almost three months now since we've been talking (although it feels a little longer than that.. hmmm). The only remaining issue we have is that we haven't met in person. The rest seems to have fallen in place, yet there is the one "what-if" scenario that is untested. (continued below....)

















Last night, as we were talking over the phone, we decided that we should stop the madness and wait until we meet each other. We want to avoid hurting each other by saying all the things that we believe is something that we are feeling today and then, regret saying them later if we don't hit it off in person. I am bummed because logically, it should be done this way but my feelings are so strong that I just want to risk getting hurt. What if he doesn't like me when we meet? Vice-versa? But then again, what if we become the magical couple destined for each other... ???

For now, we will both try not to contact each other by email, YM, text messages, and all that. Avoid saying sweet nothings like "miss you" or "wish you were here"... even if we are tempted to. We both have got to put some reality to this situation .. and this is it. Reality bites... and it sucks.